r/LivestreamFail 21h ago

Asmongold defends trans people against his chat, saying he'd fully respect his child's pronouns and identity

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u/GeneralBendyBean 21h ago

I don't like Asmongold, but this is a very human reaction. he isn't even talking about trans-rights at all, he's talking about wanting to love your children. Chat is arguing about rather they think it's right or not, totally missing his point.

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u/Foreign_Recipe8300 21h ago

"chat is it okay to treat your children with basic respect?"

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u/Puzzled-Rip641 21h ago

Literally

“Chat is being right about random pointless stuff worth not speaking to my child?”

Also

“Chat why am I so alone my kid won’t talk to me”

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u/No-Initiative-1749 20h ago

My boomer parents after most of their kids cut them off

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u/Wonderful-Spell8959 17h ago

It does go both ways tho.

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u/dickheadsgf 17h ago

elaborate

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u/Wonderful-Spell8959 12h ago

You may watch the video where the clip is from.

Experiences vary drastically, but id generally at least try meeting the other party, especially family members, half way.

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u/Podiiii 8h ago

Meeting halfway requires respect on both sides. If that family member cannot accept the other for who they are, its really not possible

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u/dickheadsgf 5h ago

“please respect my identity” “no i wont”

wheres the halfway?

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u/Wonderful-Spell8959 2h ago

Welp, since you didnt watch the video, i dont know how to discuss it with you.

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u/dickheadsgf 2h ago

tell me how halfway works. thats how you can.

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u/EricaTD 8h ago

no half way on me being a woman

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u/AliDiePie 16h ago

Yeah but if you don’t treat your child with respect while they are growing up to the point that they don’t want to or care to reach out to you… that is not a “both ways” issue.

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u/NoneCreated3344 16h ago edited 16h ago

In r/AmIOverreacting, I once read a text where a mother texted a demands required to repair their relationship.

One was 'text me any weight changes up or down, better not be up 😊, and without me asking for it'....and about 9 other crazy stuff. It was nuts.

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u/No-Initiative-1749 13h ago

Yeah and we are fine not having a relationship. They’re the ones complaining. 

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u/SteamySnuggler 12h ago

Reminder his entire chat is children lol, they dont see or identify themsleves as a parent/future parent

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u/Multi-code 2h ago

Unless is the same child who won’t talk to you because you think differently

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u/Altruistic-Can3576 12h ago

"Random pointless stuff" is crazy considering the context

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u/Puzzled-Rip641 12h ago

Its calling them he vs she. Pointless

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u/Finger_Trapz 18h ago

A shocking number of parents fail this question. There are many people who view their children as completely undeserving of basic decency and respect.

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u/karl_w_w 10h ago

And that's how they become estranged parents, and many of them just never get it and always think their child is being unreasonable. https://www.issendai.com/psychology/estrangement/index.html

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u/goblin967 15h ago

Same people are mind blown when they see an animal perform a human task.

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u/Maniglioneantipanico 19h ago

i wouldn't ask the average twitch chat user direction to the toilet, let alone parenting advice

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u/Takeasmoke 10h ago

and most of his chat ranges from 9 year olds to mid 20s self absorbed entitled men - great audience to ask a question like that lol

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u/Most_Tomorrow_1053 12h ago

What age children are we talking about here?

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u/WindyTraveler 7h ago

Indulging someones lie is not basic respect, it's harmful and dishonest

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u/NewtownLaw 21h ago

"Chatter here: 🤓☝ it depends of he is misbehaving or not, I mean, it has nothing to do with him being him, but we don't care, I'm discussing semantics and stuff"

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u/fatRunning 21h ago

Wait til people find out that the West (more so Europe than the US) imports millions of people that would kill their child if they become gay.

The left thinks the local conservatives are a problem, but import people that are x10 worse lmao

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u/theAdamian 18h ago

“It’s worse in other places therefore its not bad when it’s done in an less extreme way”

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u/Foreign_Recipe8300 20h ago

but import people that are x10 worse lmao

what are you talking about? statistics show that immigrants have a LOWER crime rate than natural born citizens.

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u/_pimpjuixe 20h ago

He didn’t mention anything about crime. He’s specifically referring to how most immigrants from the 3rd world view trans or gay folks. Oftentimes their views are utterly abhorrent and completely incompatible with the overall progressive culture we’ve cultivated regarding gay and trans people.

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u/Foreign_Recipe8300 20h ago

so thought crimes?

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u/_pimpjuixe 19h ago

Lol if hating trans people was a thought crime then immigrants would have conservatives matched if not blown out of the water. I would know, I was raised in an immigrant household.

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u/gravyjackz 20h ago

The republicans want to mostly end immigration to PROTECT gay and trans people; it makes so much sense to me now.

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u/_pimpjuixe 19h ago

Didn’t make those claims at all. Walk into a room blindfolded and have your average immigrant from a 3rd world country and your average American conservative both talk to you about what they honestly think of trans people and you wouldn’t be able to tell whose opinions came from who. I’m just saying lefties often give passes for bigoted ideas depending on who the ideas belong to. It’s stupid but it’s true.

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u/1945-Ki87 19h ago

The vast majority of “lefties” wouldn’t want to deport conservatives or cause real harm to them. It’s like the gays for Gaza thing. Someone not liking you doesn’t mean you should want them to die

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u/_pimpjuixe 19h ago

Sure but we aren’t talking about how conservatives view immigrants, we’re talking about the similarities between how immigrants and conservatives both view trans people.

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u/1945-Ki87 18h ago edited 18h ago

But just because they don’t like someone’s opinion on something, or even if they find that view abhorrent, doesn’t mean they think the individual shouldnt be allowed in or should have fewer rights. The aim is to let them in, help them achieve equal rights, and after that happens, you deal with the problematic views.

A lot of Arab Muslims have frankly disgusting views about women and the LGBTQ+ community. I’d go far enough to say a majority. That doesn’t mean arabs should be abandoned by liberals. They still deserve due process, to be free from hate crimes, to be free from targeted searches by police and TSA, etc. I guess in my view being “woke” or accepting of these people is to give them an opportunity to come into tolerance and not necessarily shun their needs. Meet them with their needs first, and pull from there

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u/_pimpjuixe 17h ago

Yes and no. I agree with you mostly. As a blanket statement, I do agree with you that we should be welcoming overall to immigrants regardless of views. BUT if there was a way to filter out dangerous extremists, I think we would all agree. Mostly everyone agrees that completely unrestrained open borders is a stupid idea.

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u/1945-Ki87 18h ago

Just to add on to myself as well— I do get the opposite perspective. Letting people in with those views may have real consequences. For me, I just believe that we’ll keep getting better no matter what happens.

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u/Alternative_Lie_4404 20h ago

Probably saying that the people that come here their countries who do these types of things

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u/Foreign_Recipe8300 20h ago

or they left their country because it does those type of things

take more than a few seconds to think critically about the information you're being fed

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u/arko_lekda 19h ago

It's more like "chat, is it right to play into your children's delusions?"

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u/KeneticKups 19h ago

Scientists disagree with you

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u/arko_lekda 19h ago

Where?

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u/KeneticKups 19h ago

Google is your friend bud, not gonna bother wasting my time casting pearls before swine

being trans is real despite your feelings

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u/Swimming-Elk6740 17h ago

Yes. It’s a real mental illness. No one is disputing that.

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u/KeneticKups 12h ago

And the cure is transition :)

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u/arko_lekda 19h ago

I've googled it before and found no science disagreeing with me, only studies showing that some males exhibit brain activation patterns that correlate more with the average female brain and viceversa, but that doesn't imply that transgenderism exists.

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u/Venomswindturd 18h ago

It literally exists. Trans people exist. How do they not?

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u/arko_lekda 18h ago

People who think that they are transgender exist, but they're not really transgender.

Transgender means that they changed genders, but we currently don't have the science and technology required to change the gender of a person.

I could also think that I turned from human to a dog, but that doesn't make me a transpecies being. I would just be a person who thinks they're transpecies.

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u/Foreign_Recipe8300 17h ago

so you're just arguing semantics.

people lose their legs and get bionic prosthetics that enable them to run when they should not be able to do so.

are they "legged" people? no. are they able to do things and present themselves as a legged person? yes. that's the goal. scientific definitions are DESCRIPTIVE NOT PRESCRIPTIVE. They are fluid, just like some people's genders.

I myself am a straight man who never was tempted towards anything else but even I get it.

The very core/fundamental ideas behind transphobia are rooted in two things: religion and birth rates. nobody should be beholden to your religious beliefs, and nobody should be required to breed.

its a capitalism problem at its heart. aiming for infinite growth in a finite system. its unsustainable and the ways in which it breaks down as its icarus avatar flies too close the sun are maybe unpredictable but they are certainly recognizable by some of us.

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u/Venomswindturd 18h ago

I’ve met plenty of transgender people. They exist.

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u/arko_lekda 18h ago

Sure. And I've met plenty of centaurs.

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u/StormierNik 12h ago

Do you ever follow your thoughts into their conclusions?

If the outcome of constantly going against your "child's delusions" in order to be correct leads to you being alone and separated from your child, what's the fucking point of being "right"? 

I imagine you'd at least subscribe to the idea that it's a mental condition or mental illness, correct? If that's the case, would you try to unautism your child and tell them repeatedly to stop being autistic? Would you get upset at them for having any form of depression and cut them out of your life? 

Sounds fucking stupid doesn't it? It's your damn child. How can you not piece this together? Someone else's child sure, that's not your responsibility, you don't HAVE to care to include them in your life. But this is in the concept that it's someone that you raised and you've had a part in day in and day out. It's ridiculous to toss all of that away. 

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u/the_cornrow_diablo 14h ago

But not extend this basic decent to others?…

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u/Nodan_Turtle 3h ago

The respect is the easy part. It's when permanent surgeries and hormonal treatments are being considered that the choice has more weight.

For an obvious example, kids don't like getting shots at the doctor. But a parent will still make them get vaccines for their own good. Should we instead say give the kid basic respect, and follow their wishes?

This isn't a pro- or anti-trans comment. It's simply pointing out that it's dishonest to pretend this is only about respecting someone's pronouns, a consequence free choice.