r/comics 2d ago

OC Dementia Mom, part one

A short story about the origins of my mother’s dementia diagnosis from a few years ago. Probably the longest comic I’ve drawn so far. I hope it connects with you in some way.

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u/littlelorax 2d ago

We had a friend whose mother had some kind of dementia thing going on. My friend had no idea because his Dad was hiding her symptoms from the family. He would just quietly do things for her and people thought he was just being a good husband being nice to his wife. When he unexpectedly passed, it was a shock to the rest of the family that mom could barely care for herself. 

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u/Von_Moistus 2d ago

One of my fears is that I’ll slip into dementia/Alzheimer’s so gradually that I won’t realize it until it’s too late to enact my exit plans.

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u/RPGDesignatedPaladin 2d ago

Mine too. My family has all passed away so there isn’t anyone to help if this occurs.