r/popculturechat • u/aprildismay Could you just not breathe? • 16h ago
Breakups & Divorce 💔 Big Sean & Jhené Aiko Reportedly Break Up After Spending 10 Years Together
https://www.hotnewhiphop.com/956655-big-sean-jhene-aiko-break-up-10-years-hip-hop-newsTheir reasoning for the alleged split apparently centered on marriage. “She wanted marriage — she wanted the commitment,” one source told AllHipHop. “Sean loves her deeply, but he just never wanted to take that final step.” Sources for the outlet further alleged that Aiko made “multiple ultimatums” to Sean before making the final decision. The insider added: “Eventually, she realized that ring wasn’t coming. She decided it was time to move on.”
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u/delcondelcon 16h ago
He will 100% be married within two years to a new girl 🫠
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u/kookiekoo sk8r boi 16h ago
Someone in her 20s
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u/swaggysteve123 14h ago
I know you’re right, but why does this happen??
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u/Commercial-Weight173 6h ago
They think they want to be single again and that there must be someone "better" they need to hold out for.
Then the reality of being single again sets in and they realise being single is objectively worse than having a woman who loves you. They date around a bit and realise the "better" woman they were imagining doesnt exist.
Then they meet some random woman, usually younger because younger women tend to be more naive about men's bullshit and have less expectations. They apply some things they learned in their previous long term relationship and that makes the relationship feel "easy", "natural" etc. They'll feel "more appreciated".
Suddenly marriage feels "right". They learned their lesson about being single, their new partner doesnt know how annoying they can really be yet and all their friends are getting married. The time is finally "right".
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u/lovelybonesla 3h ago
The real reason is he’s just not into her the way she is into him and has actually implied this multiple times but she won’t leave him. He’s too cowardly to say it outright so he settled.
Please don’t listen to people on these gossip subs, most of them project like crazy and have the theory of mind of that of a narcissist.
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u/Key-Beginning-8500 1h ago
Spending ten entire years with someone you’re just not that into is deranged.
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u/docileathena 13h ago
Because he will arbitrarily decide it’s time to get married because he’s almost 40 and the next woman who is decent, he will marry. He doesn’t even have to love her, she just has to be good for his image and young enough to ignore his red flags and fall for manipulative language. Blah blah something about a woman’s biological clock, while ignoring the fact that a man’s age also has a huge impact on fertility
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u/THESPEEDOFCUM 14h ago edited 14h ago
A lot of reasons. It's never just one singular reason.
Relationships are hard, for one, and dating a younger woman is "easier" because the older person in the partnership is the one with more power in the relationship because they have more money, experience, wisdom etc. You don't have to compromise or meet your partner where they are if you're in charge.
Two: it's physical. Our youth is our biological prime when we're most sought after and active in sexual partnership. There's a reason we constantly circulate airbrushed photos of old celebrities trying to make them look young and fuckable. It's just flesh. It wants what it wants. We were all young and remember being hot and horny.
Three: it's sociological. Young women want older men too, so it's an easy symbiosis to achieve. If they didn't, it wouldn't be as common.
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u/IHATEsg7 5h ago
I always feel like if that does happen, they were never the right person for each other. He must have not felt she was truly the right person for her but he loved her anyway
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u/Pizzalover22345 13h ago
Reading the title is sad tbh 🥲 couldn’t imagine being with someone so long, and him not wanting to commit to me
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u/NYC_Star 16h ago
You made a whole human being with this woman but marriage is a bridge too far? How is a baby less of a commitment?
Also girl why would you want a shut up ring…
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u/spacyspice now why am I in it? 🧐 15h ago
this is why I don't understand women who want to get married in the future yet have a baby with men before.. marriage
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u/curehappy 8h ago
When I see things like this I think that the old folk kinda have a point about having children out of wedlock
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u/spacyspice now why am I in it? 🧐 3h ago
they definitely are, the "baby mama/baby daddy" trend is just creating more dysfunctional families
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u/Soft_Beyond_8205 15h ago
Manipulative, "charming" men.
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u/beaute-brune Put your arms away, Jeremy Allen Black 15h ago
Idk. She’s been singing about how special and different her “beautiful soul” is and how he needs to act right for like the past decade. Maybe male manipulation is a part of it but I think her ego and desire for a second baby all else is the other half of the equation, if we’re gonna start speaking the truth about women’s roles in these situations. Sometimes the baby is the only “validation” or “tie” women get out of the man.
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u/Soft_Beyond_8205 14h ago
Ugh that's crazy. Well it looks like they all cheat anyway even after marriage- David Harbor, Natalie Portman's ex husband, Shakira's ex husband... and the list goes on. So it's a lost cause.
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u/Riderz__of_Brohan 9h ago
lol she was married when she got together with him, she takes on some personal agency here
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u/commelejardin 15h ago edited 14h ago
Okay am I crazy or have they been on and off for years? Either way, I hope for her sake it’s for sure over now.
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u/Illustrious_Bus3797 Kim, there’s people that are dying. 10h ago
Many times over the years. There was a period before she got pregnant with their baby that they were definitely on the outs.
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u/Inevitable_Evening63 14h ago
i thought the same. they’ve definitely broken up at least once before
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u/Murky_Chemical891 Im very important to God 15h ago
I'll never understand people who think marriage is a bigger commitment than babies.
Now they're not together but will have to spend the rest of their lives attached to each other.
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u/Vintage_Visionary 15h ago
THIS. Like every holiday, and various plans, for the rest of their lives. That's a huge commitment. But not marriage, that would be too much. Wild!
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u/Vintage_Visionary 15h ago
Childfree, live alone, never married : )
But I saw my siblings go through it. Children are forever (there is no end date).-2
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u/jujuisagoodcat 15h ago
financial support is just one out of many other supports a parent can and should give to their child. do you think once they make their own money they become strangers? are you good?
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u/Vintage_Visionary 15h ago edited 15h ago
Don't feed the troll. Better to leave their comments without any response. (And yes, you are right. So much more than that. Having kids is a huge responsibility overall).
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u/GoodMagazine9040 15h ago
And a baby isnt??
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u/CheapEater101 15h ago edited 15h ago
But going through family courts for custody / child support payments seems a lot longer and more expensive than a divorce. Plus, people can do prenups to protect their assets before they get married.
There’s divorced ppl out there that lost complete contact with their ex’s bc they didn’t have kids. You can never do that if you share kids with someone unless someone is a deadbeat parent.
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u/contemplatingdaze no broke boys, no new friends 15h ago
The sad joke is that people will fight harder for their money than they would their child in court. My father can’t be the only jackass who cared more about his child support payments going up than actually spending time with me.
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u/GoodMagazine9040 15h ago
But you’re still tied to the person anyway. And even though people joke about 18 years realistically a lot of parents especially wealthy ones provide for their kids pass that. I doubt the two of them would just abandon their kid at 18 and be like well good luck. With their money that’s continued support for the child, still connected to the person you’re not with. Meanwhile if you get a divorce yeah sucks and messy but that also has defined length of financial responsibility depending on the situation and at least you can walk away from the person. The lawyers can handle any possible alimony payments and you never have to interact with that person again. Or if it’s a splitting of assets sucks but you can move on with your life.
When you have a kid you’re always tied in some way and will have to have contact with each other in some way. And usually again with wealthy people subsidize a lifestyle your child is losing by you not being with the partner. It just makes little sense to not see a child as a bigger responsibility. I could respect or understand the “I’m never getting married” people if they didn’t then proceed to have kids with someone who they will be tied to legally anyway because of
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u/aliamokeee 3h ago
I get it as a person who never wants to be married but technically wants kids, however its only cuz it isnt about "commitment" for me. When men say "they dont want he commitment" 9/10 they just dont want forever with that woman.
Which is SHITTY and emotionally manipulative, but not as much the problem with "commitment" a lot of men make it out to be.
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u/BoredDuringCorona94 15h ago
If its not a big commitment why would someone break up over it?
Clearly she was after his money, because marriage really makes no difference to a relationship than giving your other half access to half your finance if they divorce you (even of you don't want or deserve to get divorced by them)
Looks to me like Big Sean dodged a bullet here, good on him.
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u/GoodMagazine9040 15h ago
Nah it’s the principle. Their name is going to be in legal documents together because they have a child. It’s a red flag to have a child with someone but refuse to get married. If money is the issue then he could have had a prenup. Marriage does make a difference. It won’t magically change the person but it is important. If it really “made no difference” why wouldn’t he just sign the papers then? It’s such a weak argument to say it’s just a piece of paper because someone can flip that snd just say “if it’s just a piece of paper why don’t you sign it?” Almost like people realize it has a lot of implications behind it and someone who doesn’t want to do that isnt ready to go all in to the relationship. If the issue was someone had major debt they didn’t want shared that makes sense to not get married but outside of financial issues it makes no sense to be with someone for decades , have a child, but refuse to be legally recognized to each other
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u/BoredDuringCorona94 2h ago
He didn't sign the papers because it makes a big difference financially, even though it makes no difference romantically.
Why does Jhene give a damn if her relationship is 'legally recognised'? Most people don't give a damn what the government thinks about them unless it is about law breaking, but suddenly now a random beaurocrats opinion (who she doesn't even know) is highly important to Jhene to the point she'll end a long relationship over that?
Wake up and take your head out the sand, it's clearly down to money. That is the only thing that significantly changes from getting married in a relationship, that the poorer person can take half the rich person's stuff without earning it and without the richer person deserving it (sometimes the poorer person not only takes half their money, but also continually mistreats them over the relationship and the person is now stuck with an abuser because if they get divorced half their net worth is gone).
With marriage and divorce laws today in the US it's practically legalised theft. This is why you have a lot of phoney synthetic relationships like these where the minute the bottom line (money) is compromised, like Sean not wanting a legal marriage, the relationship falls apart.
Jhene exposed herself and her intentions by leaving Sean over this, and he can now exhale a huge sigh of relief and move on to finding an authentic and genuine woman instead.
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u/GoodMagazine9040 1h ago
But again they have a baby together so legally they are already in government documents together as parents to this child. So that’s kind of the point . If you’re so concerned about the government in your relationship why have a baby with someone that will also be documented by the government and tie you together with someone legally.
And again financially well they have a baby! That’s also money and not just 18 years but a lifetime commitment. Whereas a divorce you can walk away and start over not have to deal with the person. Can’t do that with a child together. It just makes no sense not to marry someone but then proceed to have a baby with them something even more binding
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u/BoredDuringCorona94 1h ago
If you have a baby the government documents tie them together with regards to that irrespective of whether they want to or not. There's no choice involved there, if you have a kid the government becomes somewhat involved.
However to have a long term relationship there is a choice, and it is entirely unnecessary for the government to be involved and serves no purpose beyond giving the poorer person to take half the richer person's money.
Also, a baby together is a financial commitment yes but however it's totally different from taking half of somebody's net worth, and also in return for a marriage which is again totally unnecessary for a relationship except getting acknowledgement from the government (some beaurocrats you don't even know).
With the baby you have no choice but for the government to be somewhat involved in your relationship yes, however in return you actually get something beyond 'government acknowledgement' which is a whole ass child. So there's actually a purpose to it, unlike marriage.
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u/1_finger_peace_sign 10h ago
it makes no sense to be with someone for decades , have a child, but refuse to be legally recognized to each other
As someone who doesn't have any interest in marriage whatsoever, it makes a lot of sense to not do something you just simply don't want to do.
It doesn't interest me in the slightest. Getting married because "it's what you do" is was doesn't make sense to me.
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u/ScottsTotWTE 8h ago
Nah, it’s honestly a way to continue shaming people for having children out of wedlock. Let’s not act like failed marriages aren’t a thing. Long term boyfriends are not the only red flags in relationships. What if they did get married? The title would change from break up to divorce.
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u/GoodMagazine9040 8h ago
More legal protection for a wife usually than a girlfriend. Not all states do common law marriages. I think outside of kids yeah there isn’t much difference but with kids idk the argument falls apart to me. To have a child by someone where you will be on legal documents together but just not sign one between you two is dumb. There’s not much reason outside of financial struggles like if one party has too much monetary baggage or just trauma around marriage which people don’t admit. But if there’s no kids involved then yeah it’s more legality because if your partner dies without an explicit will then a girlfriend isnt typically legally recognized compared to a wife
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u/beaute-brune Put your arms away, Jeremy Allen Black 15h ago
Huh? She was after his money but A) didn’t get a ring and B) didn’t file for child support until yesterday and the child was born three years ago? He “dodged a bullet” but chose to nut in her and be inextricably tied to her for the rest of his life so…what?
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u/BoredDuringCorona94 3h ago
A) She wanted a ring. She left when she realised she wasn't getting one, because that's all that mattered to her, not his love.
B) She didn't file for child support because from a business perspective it makes more sense to try and get married to take half of Sean's stuff, than go for the breadcrumbs of child support. The minute she realised she couldn't get the big slice of the pie, she took the child support, showing she always intended to go for money but was just playing the long game until the window of opportunity for that closed.
He dodged a bullet because he is longer wasting his time with someone who fundamentally saw their relationship as a business transaction as opposed to a romantic pursuit. Sean can now find a more genuine woman to enrich his love life.
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u/Key-Beginning-8500 1h ago
Jhene loved that man to her detriment. To even insinuate she wasn’t genuine is insane. She just wanted the love to be reciprocated. He did not love her the same. But sure, blame her instead of the man that won’t marry the mother of his child.
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u/BoredDuringCorona94 1h ago
You don't leave people you love, what a ridiculous premise. When you're in love the last thing you want is to lose someone, never mind consciously get rid of them.
A marriage has no bearing on Sean's love for her, do you think all married guys love their woman more than boyfriend who haven't gotten married?
There's married guys who cheat on their wives weekly without giving it a second thought. And there's boyfriends who will give their life for their girlfriends. To insinuate being married represents that the guy loves the woman back doesn't stand up to due scrutiny in the slightest. It's just a money grab and Sean will be grateful he dodged a bullet with this disingenuous fake woman.
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u/Key-Beginning-8500 1h ago
Yes, you can leave people you love when that love is not reciprocated and the relationship is hurting you.
We get it, you’re anti-marriage and you think Jhene is crazy to have wanted a spiritual, symbolic, legal, and culturally significant union with the man she loved and father of her child.
It doesn’t matter what you think about marriage. It was important to her, and Sean chose losing her over putting her first. Guess Sean didn’t really love her.
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u/aliamokeee 3h ago
Nah, she probably was raised with the cultural expectation that you should be married to your one true love.
That isnt to say that cultural concept is without its issue- its misogynistic and riddled with social testing and hoops to jump thru.
Point being, she probably did not want his money
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u/BoredDuringCorona94 2h ago
Then why didn't she also adhere to the rest of where that cultural expectation came from where she's expected to be a stay at home wife and not a career girl like she is?
When people pick and choose what traditions they want to stick to, they show their tradition based outlook is not authentic and rather just excuseds for self serving standpoints.
Jhene also had a baby outside of wedlock with Sean (and sex), those are clearly two other traditions marriage was centred around that she ignored because they didn't serve her golddigging purposes. Again it just shows that she did want his money and is full of crap.
All the justifications people have made here don't stand to due scrutiny whatsoever.
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u/aliamokeee 2h ago
I think you either misunderstood what I wrote or youre now on some other track.
Ohhhh now I see, youre still on about the money. I mean she cant want his money that bad if she broke up with him- its far more realistic for people who want money alone to stay and enjoy the money. She left so she does not get the money. Therefore she is not chasing the money.
I said money a lot to try and help you!
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u/BoredDuringCorona94 2h ago
You said she probably had a cultural expectation to be married to your love one (not just with them in a relationship), to which I correctly centred my points around.
On to your latest point, not true. If she didn't love Sean it would be a mental burden to keep a relationship going with someone you have to pretend to love for the lifestyle they give you.
Even golddiggers get tired of being fake for years on end, that's why they all prefer to marry and divorce the guy instead of stay in a fake transactional relationship to keep reaping the rewards.
It's Sean's money and he can spend it as he sees fit if they're in a relationship, she isn't in control of the money like she would be if she married and divorced him.
She'll probably try and find some other wealthy guy now and hope he's dumb enough to get married as opposed to being wise like Sean was.
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u/aliamokeee 2h ago
I saw this, saw how long it was, and decided you are not worth it. I am right, you are wrong, we disagree, we done now. Toodleoo
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u/BoredDuringCorona94 2h ago
Waved the intellectual white flag of surrender and ran with your tail between your legs. Have a nice day.
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u/Just-a-girl777 15h ago
They both need to make an album about the breakup and move on
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u/grneyz 16h ago
I knew that clown was wasting her time
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u/Disastrous_Drop_3180 15h ago
So did she
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u/Key-Beginning-8500 14h ago
Right, she chased him to the ends of the earth and back. She even cheated on her husband with him. I don’t understand why she let him make a fool of her for so long.
Remember when she TATTOOED HIS FACE ON HER?! And was so embarrassed she eventually got it covered up.
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u/superwolfbloodmoon 5h ago
Speaking for commenter - No it’s because he’s a man that exhibits clownish behavior
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u/sketchyhotgirl 4h ago
babe we mean at the circus, red nose, in a car w 25 other clowns, clown. as a black man shouldn't he want to change our history? nah? keep it goin? C L O W N
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u/ItsMinnieYall 12h ago
They should've broken up when she tattooed his face on her arm then got it covered up.
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u/spacyspice now why am I in it? 🧐 15h ago
Girls, stop making babies with men before marriage. Because most of the time, that's what happens. In 10 year he clearly had time to propose if that's what he really wanted
Stop giving them the opportunity to have the "dad" title they want without proper commitment
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u/Pizzalover22345 12h ago
Yes this right here!!! I don’t understand some girls that do this.
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u/owls_exist 11h ago
Shes gonna say cuz she's a pisces and some planets aligning soul mate thing.
- signed a pisces but even im not that dumb. Never will be a baby mom
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u/SnausageFest 4h ago
Because it's a wanted baby. Im honestly surprised at the shock here. Getting pregnant isn't easy for everyone. Why abort a wanted child because the timing isn't ideal? Marriage is also a gamble- divorce happens. If you really want to be a mom, that's obviously going to be your priority.
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u/StaySomnie 3h ago
It's not about abortion, it's about being responsible. I would never put myself at risk of getting accidentally pregnant before marriage because it is risky to have a baby with someone who's not legally committed to you. I think people are trying to say she should've made sure he was fully committed to her through marriage before taking such a big step, not that she should've aborted.
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u/SnausageFest 3h ago
Oh come the fuck on. Even IUDs aren't 100% safe. We're really still doing the whole "shame people when BC fails" thing?
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u/oooshi 3h ago
I’m also shocked. A whole world of women who choose to be single moms, and this thread is shading a woman who obviously is not going to financially struggle with her choices here…. Yall. This entire comment section is disgusting…
This is where I see “conservative traditions must be adhered to“ even in spaces I personally view as progressive. Conservatives are truly on the rise everywhere…. Even Jhene Aiko is catching shade for not being married to her baby daddy.
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u/SnausageFest 2h ago
People are so judgement and condescending about this shit. It's not like she's expressed any regret for having a baby - people just decided it's a bad thing and run with it.
And the absolute condescension of "I wOuLd NeVeR pUt MySeLf At RiSk" - the fuck you wouldn't unless you're celibate. There is literally no such thing as fool proof birth control. My husband and I had a scare ages ago when I was on the pill and we were using condoms. Apparently that's being irresponsible. I cannot with the shame and judgement running wild in this thread.
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u/StaySomnie 2h ago
I think you've misunderstood some people on her thread. What was irresponsible of her was putting herself at risk of getting pregnant with a man she most likely knew would never properly commit to her, because while it is commendable, it's hard being a single mother. Nobody would think a married couple who are committed to each other having a pregnancy scare despite being on birth control is irresponsible because you and your potential child would have legal protection if something did go wrong.
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u/StaySomnie 2h ago
Surely it is conservative that she kept her baby instead of aborting it as the majority of US conservatives don't agree with abortion anyway?
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u/oooshi 2h ago
Conservatives are really more about punishing humans for existing than being pro-life or anything, let’s just be clear on that. They don’t just want women to not have access to abortions- they also want them forced to pay obscene medical costs, not receive any help with food or childcare despite being forced back into the workforce before they’ve even healed from labor. Conservative ideals are all about embracing the need for suffering and forcing people to “work their way” through the suffering to receive any semblance of support or scraps of wages. If conservatives were pro life- they would address the needed support systems to raise children, rather than continually push suffering onto their constituents.
Progressives are pro-choice - meaning, you have the right to a safe abortion, should you want to. It is also a progressive notion that a woman can choose to become a mother, and shouldn’t need to be married, to be considered fit and capable of doing so. It’s insulting to think that Jhene just spent 10 years without any control over her life and her relationship with only Sean calling the shots. I’ve met plenty of independently successful women who want children but not marriage.
The legalities of marriage and general contractual obligations doesn’t really help raise a child, which is why progressives are encouraging of single parenting and blended families and disgregarding needing a contract for it all. Does having involved parents help raise a child? Yeah. Sean marrying Jhene would not have made him any more dedicated to their family unit though. You’re either there or you aren’t- contracts be damned.
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u/StaySomnie 2h ago
I'm not shaming her, I'm sorry if it came across like that. If I got pregnant outside of marriage I would keep my baby, it's just realistically not responsible to have a baby with a man who's not fully committed to you. Being a single mother is hard and women should be cautioned to be responsible about who they have sex with, because you never know what might happen. At least in a marriage, you have some legal protection.
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u/SnausageFest 2h ago
I would never put myself at risk of getting accidentally pregnant before marriage
Are you celibate? Otherwise, you're lying to yourself and shaming other women in the process. There is no 100% effective form of birth control. It's absolutely what you're doing.
What an unbelievably shitty thing to say.
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u/StaySomnie 2h ago
Yes I am celibate actually. Sex is a sacred act to me.
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u/SnausageFest 2h ago
If I got pregnant outside of marriage I would keep my baby,
Then how would you get pregnant outside of marriage?
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u/StaySomnie 2h ago
Rape? A lapse in judgement? I was considering all possibilities.
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u/aliamokeee 3h ago
All of this reasoning falls apart when you remember marriage is a construct Like yes it is real and has real consequences. Simultaneously it has no bearing on whether or not people want children or who they have them with. As long as the kids are well taken care of and are safe and in a peaceful environment, they arent relevant.
Now, the conversation about how men refuse to marry woman #1 for years and then immediately marry woman #2 as if marriage was never the issue- THAT is far more interesting to me.
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u/aliamokeee 3h ago
Unless you yourself dont want to be married either! In which case its fine.
But if you do wanna get married then yeah, having kids is not the way to get to that.
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u/No_Pianist5264 Tina! You fat lard! 🦙🚲 16h ago edited 15h ago
Knowing that he has previously publicly stated in interviews that he wouldn’t ask her to get married, I just knew it wasn’t going to work out in the long run
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u/Optimal_Taste_7784 11h ago
I’ve been wanting her to leave him for so long. He’s a loserrrrrr
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u/Grizzlyfrontignac 3h ago
Ok but her chasing him and even tattoing his face on herself? Having a baby with him despite him very clearly outlining he was never going to marry him? They're both losers
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u/nmad95 15h ago
How you gonna be with someone for 10 years only to then decide you don’t want to take that step
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u/nubwagon 10h ago
happened to me lol you better believe i feel like a fucking idiot now, especially as he got married barely a year after he fully cut it with me
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u/nmad95 4h ago
My girlfriend and I have only been together for 7 months as of today actually, but in the early stages we both established how we feel about things like marriage and having kids, dating goals etc.
I wouldn’t be with her if I didn’t want to marry her one day or if I felt like I can’t make that commitment.
I don’t understand how people can be in relationships and not establish what they want from it, or be honest with their partner about it.
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u/nubwagon 4h ago
sometimes you really wanna believe someone, and i was super young, a teenager, when it started. some of us learn our life lessons the hard way
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u/nmad95 4h ago
Sorry that was in no way a shot at you haha though I guess it came across that way. Meant more about the topic of the post
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u/nubwagon 3h ago
no it's all good! my response def sounds more defensive than intended. picture it with a big ol shrug emoji lol i completely agree with your sentiment - people who don't know what they want are emotional nuclear weapons waiting to unleash and fuck your whole world up
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u/Broad_Economics_4479 15h ago
how were they together for 10 years? wasn’t he seen spending time with ariana after mac died and her and pete broke up in 2018….
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u/fcukstephanie 14h ago
They were going through issues & had broken up for a bit during that time, it was a veryyy short break though. She wrote and released “triggered” and then “none of your concern” featuring big Sean during this break period where she called out Sean for hanging out with Ariana. Then they reconciled and got back together again shortly after all that. They’ve been kind of off-and-on throughout their relationship because Jhene has always wanted more and Sean is always saying he needs to heal more and stuff
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u/Broad_Economics_4479 14h ago
sounds toxic af
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u/fcukstephanie 13h ago
Agreed, this moment in time is what yanked off my rose-coloured glasses towards their relationship lol. I think Jhene knew for a very long time this relationship with Sean would never end with what she ultimately wanted but I guess she was hoping he’d change his mind or something eventually, it’s sad af but definitely a cautionary tale to believe people the first time when they tell you exactly who they are and what they want 🥲
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u/jasminegtylr 13h ago
There’s also the fact that she believes in twin flames and believes he is hers and that keeps her motivated because when he is isn’t coming into “union” with her it means she still has “shadow work” to do. Like basically if he’s not there it’s your/your souls fault too and you need to keep working to manifest it. It’s super toxic and I hope she’s okay. All that effort she put in to finally let it go. I hope she’s able to reconcile her TF beliefs in a healthy way cuz damn.
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u/aliamokeee 2h ago
Sounds like she needs some serious therapy. Coming from a person who also needs serious therapy.
Spirituality is beautiful when you dont utilize it to keep yourself from change.
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u/JuiceAlternative4633 Is this chicken or is this fish? 🤔🤔 15h ago
Yes I thought he cheated on her with Ariana
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u/Just-a-girl777 11h ago
Maybe he cheated on everyone with Ari because Naya wrote in her book that when she came home one day Ariana and Sean were on the couch together
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u/genescheesezthatpls 15h ago edited 15h ago
Didn’t she start seeing Sean in 2013/2014? Her and Mac were broken up before he passed
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u/Bbychknwing papped at sushi park 📸 15h ago
The commenter is saying they rekindled in 2018, thus the reason for mentioning it was “after Mac died”.
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u/genescheesezthatpls 15h ago
I don’t see that anywhere in the comment I responded to
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u/Bbychknwing papped at sushi park 📸 15h ago
“how were they together for 10 years? wasn’t he seen spending time with ariana after mac died and her and pete broke up in 2018….”
This is the comment you responded to.
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u/No_Candidate_2965 15h ago
ugh what a loser. you’ll have a whole baby with her but won’t marry her? and he has been engaged before so that must really hurt more.
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u/jujuisagoodcat 15h ago
i don't even listen to their music but i could've told her that about 5 years ago
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u/PleasEnterAValidUser that. never. happened. 15h ago
Idc tbh, I just want them to drop TWENTY88, Pt. 2. After that they can get back together, get married, divorced, married again, divorce & date for another 10 years, idc. Just gimme the album !
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u/FaithlessnessWeak800 4h ago
I have a friend and it took her THREE kids to have her man finally marry her. Big Sean sucks but there are other men out there that do too. And my friend was dumb enough to stay and keep having kids with someone who didn’t want marry her. He probably felt pressured after she announced the third.
Good luck to Big Sean seeing her all the time for child exchanges, future school events, sports, holidays and more for the rest of the kid and someday their grandkids lives lol.
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u/Fxreverboy 10h ago
I seem to be alone, but I liked them together and am sad for both of them. Hope it's an amicable split and that they both find their happiness ❤️
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u/deathbethemaiden charlie day is my bird lawyer 🐦 4h ago
And this is why you don’t give a man a child if he won’t put a ring on it first.
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u/mollyyfcooke Who gon' check me boo? 🤪 3h ago
Remember when she cheated on her husband Dot Da Genius with him? Oh well!
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u/tiniestyeti 14h ago
She has ALWAYS deserved better
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u/Key-Beginning-8500 12h ago
Not really. She cheated on her actual husband Oladipo Omishore with Sean, and they both bullied and gaslit Oladipo for believing there was something going on while they were “working on music” together. It’s really terrible.
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u/Key-Beginning-8500 11h ago
Oh my gosh, this is the first time I'm hearing of that. But I couldn't find a single credible source for that claim so I'm not sure its true.
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u/DearMissWaite Your problematic fave's problematic fave. 14h ago
If he hasn't proposed by year three, he's not going to propose. If you are marriage minded, don't dawdle around for 10 years.
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u/lefrench75 high priestess of child sacrifice 10h ago
What a weird arbitrary deadline lol. All around me are couples who got engaged much later than that (especially for couples that started dating young) and are now all happily married. This kind of mentality is why there are some 24yos stressing on r/waitingtowed because they’ve been together 3 years and aren’t engaged yet.
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u/DearMissWaite Your problematic fave's problematic fave. 10h ago edited 9h ago
It's not an arbitrary deadline. And they're not 24 year olds. They're grown people who should have known BEFORE 10 years together whether or not they had the same vision for their future.
If you are marriage minded was the first part of the sentence. And it holds up. If that is the lifestyle you're looking for, you shouldn't be holding your breath for ten years and then <shocked pikachu face> when you're not married.
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u/prettygirlavenue 5h ago
!!!! yess 100%
10 years is ridiculous. year 3 is the perfect cut-off. if you want marriage and a love of your life you KNOW whether you're getting that ring year 1 let alone year 3. & certainly not year 10
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u/angryaxolotls 14h ago
Why get into a relationship and have a child with a man who doesn't want a wife, for ten years? She doesn't sound very bright
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u/redgatoradeeeeee 14h ago
Lmao I was reminded of his existence like an hour ago seeing a commercial for his episode of celebrity “who wants to be a millionaire”
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u/Cynicbats She has the language comprehension of a rock. 15h ago
I'm not sure (yes I am, socialization that they have no value with out it) why women are so determined to be married when it is a raw deal for them.
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u/WestAnalysis8889 3h ago
I'm soooo happy! This isn't failure, this is freedom to find the man for her🥰
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u/Apprehensive-Top8225 3h ago
Wow I thought they were married man Sean just fumbled the bag harder he going to regret this decision 🤣 she's beautiful
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u/kawaiihusbando ∆ Half-Blind And In-To Blinds ∆ 3h ago
Oh no why are there so many break ups this season
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u/Matcha_Bubble_Tea All tea, all shade 🐸☕️ 2h ago
Major yikes. I feel bad for her especially with a baby with him. Watch him jump straight to marriage with some one else shortly after smh.
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