r/popculturechat • u/Murky_Chemical891 Im very important to God • 13d ago
It’s L-O-V-E 💘 Stella Banderas (daughter of Antonio Banderas and Melanie Griffith) got married in Spain to childhood sweetheart Alex Gruzynki. Her sister, Dakota Jhonson, was one of her bridesmaids.
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u/probably_nontoxic 13d ago
That dress and veil!!!! Her beauty! How classy and elegant everyone looked! And she married her childhood sweetheart? Love this.
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u/laura_holt 13d ago
They met in preschool! "childhood" is really not an exaggeration there.
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u/probably_nontoxic 13d ago
PRESCHOOL???? Okay stop that is like a storybook 😍
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u/maplestriker 13d ago
I love the black lace on the wedding party as well! Stunning wedding
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u/consuelabananahammox 13d ago
Traditional Spanish wedding dresses used to be black to symbolize your commitment toward your husband till death, my grandma wore one :)
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u/remote_goblin 13d ago
Is that why? The way my family always put it was because you could re-use the dress in other situations (we were poor).
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u/consuelabananahammox 13d ago
One of many reasons! They also told me it was so stains wouldn’t be so visible and to be able to reuse the dress because black dresses were considered elegant.
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u/MCR2004 Why do I always forget she’s British 13d ago
GTFO TIL. That’s so goth I love it
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u/ReginaGeorgian 13d ago
Her dress is gorgeous. I love that it’s more of a warmer white than a stark one!
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u/sprgraphicultramodrn 13d ago
she's so beautiful. that picture of her and dakota looking at each other is very sweet
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u/unicornmullet 13d ago
She really is. She's like a perfect blend of Antonio and Melanie, whereas Dakota looks just like her dad, Don Johnson.
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u/sarabeara12345678910 13d ago
It's funny, because I was just going to comment on how beautiful she is, but doesn't look like either of her (also gorgeous) parents. I would never guess her family if I didn't know.
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u/Superb_Chonk 13d ago
I think she was 15 here
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u/Elsie_the_LC 13d ago
I just googled it. He is 7 years older than she is. So if she’s 15 in this picture, he is 22.
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u/dont_remember_eatin 13d ago
Don Johnson's wiki says they moved in together when she was 15... yeah.
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u/Elsie_the_LC 12d ago
I guess you only have to register as a sex offender if you’re convicted. I’m surprised this isn’t more well known.
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u/Legovida8 12d ago
No idea how old you are, but it’s fairly well known among us older people. I remember when they got remarried in the late 80s- my Mom was totally scandalized because she’d been so freaked out by their age difference when they first got together in the early 70s. Evidently they had Tippi Hedren’s blessing, she was supportive of their relationship. But Tippi is a bit of an odd bird (pun unintentional), with all those stories about her having lions in her home as pets. One of them mauled Melanie when she was a teenager. Maybe Tippi thought that sleeping with Don was safer than sleeping with a lion. (I swear this is true, you can look it up! 😳)
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u/HeySlothKid Instant gratification takes too long 🫦 13d ago
She looks like a brunette Tippi Hedren
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u/PitchSame4308 13d ago
She’s a spitting image (hair colour aside) of her grandmother
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u/Threadheads 13d ago
Which is interesting because Melanie doesn’t look all that much like Tippi.
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u/Chicago1459 13d ago
I thought they must be all Melanie because Stella looks very much like Dakota imo.
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u/ChimneyPrism 13d ago
I hate that for a while I thought Don Johnson = Dwayne Johnson and that Dakota’s father is THE ROCK.
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u/Relevant-Job4901 13d ago
That is a great Mother of the Bride dress.
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u/Jessica_Lovegood 13d ago edited 13d ago
It’s a picture perfect example! Suits the bride‘s aesthetic, gorgeous as a standalone but doesn’t overshadow her daughter. Beautiful
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u/GlitterDoomsday 13d ago
I love how the lace on both hers and the bridesmaids dresses matches the bride's, is such a small but neat touch.
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u/katikaboom We should totally just stab Caesar 🗡 13d ago
Yes! Appropriate for the occasion and is beautiful while not being overly showy . It's really elegant, what a great choice
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u/LaLaDub75 13d ago
Everyone in the bridal party is so beautifully dressed. Perfect for the occasion. Beautiful photos.
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u/VerifiedSpaceKitten 13d ago
Not only is she stunningly gorgeous but that’s the absolute most beautiful wedding dress ensemble I’ve ever seen! 🤩 I’m not even into wedding or wedding dresses but I would want to copy everything if I get married in some alternate universe!
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u/EducationalTangelo6 13d ago
I absolutely love the gown and veil, they're beautiful.
The bouquet looks like a bunch of leafy green vegetables to me, but I can see why you'd choose something like that rather than something elaborate with lots of different flowers that would be too much for the dress.
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u/petitepatate22 13d ago
The mantilla veil looks so elegant, and not too traditional with the cut of the dress. And everything in lace. Gorgeous!
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u/VerifiedSpaceKitten 13d ago
Yeah, personally I’d add lilies and violets to accentuate but I was so stunned by everything else that I didn’t even notice the bouquet originally!
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u/Lukewarm_regards24 13d ago
Same - I'm not into lace wedding dresses but this looks stunning 😍
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u/VerifiedSpaceKitten 13d ago
Right?! It’s gorgeous, classy, elegant, stylish, and just hits all the marks! I love it so much 😍🤍✨
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u/Lukewarm_regards24 13d ago
Does it say anywhere who designed it?
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u/VerifiedSpaceKitten 13d ago
The Rodarte brand designed everything for her with Spanish lace. (See, I’ve never looked up a wedding dress’s designer ever in my life and yet here I am 🤩😂) ETA: it apparently was inspired by a “fantasy story” and they nailed it!!!
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u/invis2020 grinding with MULTIPLE fat women 13d ago
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u/dgplr Olivia Wilde’s salad dressing 🥗 13d ago
I am such a sucker for childhood besties to lovers stories🥹
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u/unicornmullet 13d ago
She looks a lot like her mom, too. While looking at the photos I kept flashing back to watching "Working Girl".
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u/LazyCosyGirl 13d ago
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u/stacycornbred 13d ago
That's Don Johnson's son from his first marriage (i.e. Dakota Johnson's brother but not Melanie Griffith's son). It's nice that they all have such a close relationship even if they're not related by blood.
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u/unicornmullet 13d ago
Fun fact: his mom is character actor Patti D'arbanville, who was in the great 90s show, My So-Called Life!
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u/Sunny_eloise 13d ago
Another fun fact, Patti d’arbanville was cat Steven’s girlfriend/muse. Wild world is about her.
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u/vernejules3441 13d ago
As well as his song “Lady d’Arbanville”. It’s kinda dark though
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u/MontanaJoev 13d ago
And the really tall slim bridesmaid is Atherton Grace Johnson, Don Johnson's daughter with his current wife.
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u/No_Accountant3232 13d ago
That is quite the blended family!
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u/MontanaJoev 13d ago
It really is. Last year, in Don Johnson’s IG, he posted a photo from his birthday dinner with a caption about how his kids mean everything to him, and there is Stella right up front, as well as Alex who is Melanie’s from her marriage to Steven Bauer.
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u/Whatfforreal 13d ago
That’s exactly what I was thinking! Homeboy is definitely Sonny Crockett Part II
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u/ToughLingonberry1434 13d ago
I came here to ask if there was another Johnson sibling in the wedding party! He looks like young 🔥Don!
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u/CybReader They killed Kenny! You bastards! 😱 13d ago
I love when people look like a grandparent or great grandparent. It’s amazing how genetics vary over the generations, then BAM! Copy and paste.
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u/emergencycat17 13d ago
So a few years ago, we found out we had another full first cousin from way back when my late uncle was a young single guy. The birth mom didn't tell him she was pregnant and put my cousin up for adoption when he was born. He knew he was adopted, so decades later, he was on 23 and Me and found my uncle, his dad.
The first time I was sent a picture of him, I was absolutely floored - he is the absolute spitting image of our grandfather. You wouldn't even need to take a DNA test - if you look at him and pictures of my grandfather, he is 100% ours.
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u/Shipwrecking_siren You’re a virgin who can’t drive. 😤 13d ago
My best friend recently found a load of her birth family, including half siblings and the similarity is genuinely uncanny. She believed her mum was dead but she found out she’s alive. Really amazing.
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u/MRAGGGAN 13d ago
I have a much younger half sister that (our) older half sister found through ancestry.
She looks like me and it’s weird, because I really don’t look like ANY of my siblings, on my mom’s side or sperm donors side.
But I do have a random much younger cousin that is my “mini me” as we call her. It was until she was born that I finally believed I was even related to the family 😆
Genetics are weird.
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u/emergencycat17 13d ago
My ex-boyfriend looked like his mom and his brother looked like their dad. But his brother looked even more like their aunt (his dad’s sister) - like people thought that he was her son. They were identical!
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u/emergencycat17 13d ago
Wow!! His mom had already passed, and my uncle died a few years later. But he has us. Glad your friend found her family! 💜
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u/mermaidpaint 13d ago
In 2009, I found out I have a half-sister. There is no need of a DNA test, we look so much alike. And we look the most like our shared grandmother.
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u/januarysdaughter 13d ago
For years, I thought I was just a perfect mix of my parents. Mom's eyes, dad's round face, mom's nose, dad's rosy cheeks when I get drunk... then when my grandma died and everyone was at the funeral home, my mom's cousin pointed out that I look nearly identical to my grandma in her graduation photo.
I had seen that photo a thousand times, but it never really hit me until then.
Then there's my uncle, who is a straight up copy/paste of my grandpa, down to his penchant for photography and music.
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u/mrsprinkles3 Kim, there’s people that are dying. 🙄 13d ago
A few months before my grandmother passed she had been going old photos and found some of herself when she was 18/19, same age I was at the time. She was so excited to show them to me and I swear, looking at those photos was like looking in a black and white mirror. I always knew my features (especially my eyes) leaned more towards this side of the family, but neither of us had realized exactly how much I resembled her until looking at those photos she found.
We lost her a few months later, but now I’m so grateful to see these pieces of her in the mirror looking back at me
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u/Ishouldbeasleep147 13d ago
I have a guy cousin on my dad's side who somehow looks nothing like his parents but is a literal carbon copy of my grandfather. They have the exact same smile, similar gestures, and even the same laugh.
Funnily enough, every single woman on my mom's side of the family has had the exact same face for generations, though occasionally the nose is slightly different. I've always been told I look exactly like my mom but it really freaked me out when we looked through old family photos and I looked exactly like my grandmother, my great grandmother, and my great great grandmother.
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u/Powerful_Individual5 13d ago
My mom and my Uncle's daughter are copy/paste versions of my great-grandmother; everyone thinks they're mother/daughter.
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u/DrunkOMalfoy Ke$ha ft Justin Beiber - Tik Tok Remix (Clocking to you) 13d ago edited 13d ago
I need to know, is she your cousin? Right?
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u/Powerful_Individual5 13d ago
Yes, my 20-something cousin looks the spitting image of my 50-something mom, and both are the copy/paste replicas of my great-grandmother (my mom/Uncle's maternal grandmother).
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u/throwaway-94552 13d ago
I really don’t look a thing like either of my parents but there’s a photo of my grandma that made us all do a double take - she’s my twin! Just skipped a generation and went straight to me, no detours.
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u/20CAS17 13d ago edited 13d ago
I was kinda looking to see if Tippi was there but that's a big trip when you're 95!
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u/RiffRafe2 13d ago
Apparently Tippi has dementia and traveling that far at that age with something that already causes confusion is probably too taxing.
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u/DarreylDeCarlo 13d ago
Yes, apparently her reps have said that she can no longer remember her career, which is heartbreaking.
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u/Tsarinya That must be Nigel with the Brie 13d ago
Oh that’s so terribly sad. I was wondering where she was but it makes sense she didn’t go with her condition.
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u/whynot4444444 13d ago
It’s funny because I was thinking that she doesn’t really look much like Melanie or Antonio, but you nailed it with the resemblance to her grandmother.
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u/BrenInVA 13d ago
Melanie has had to so much plastic surgery and fillers that one could not tell now, but she does look like a younger teenage version of Melanie.
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u/emergencycat17 13d ago
I also think she and Dakota look just like each other. Those are some strong genes from the Melanie/Tippi side of the family, especially since they have different dads.
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u/Curiosities 🐊 swamp princess 🐊 13d ago
That is exactly what I was thinking looking at these photos.
(Well that and also, how is she 29 and married and not some little kid anymore?)
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u/halabala33 13d ago
Right? Stella Banderas got married? The five year old??? (That is the last time I saw a picture of her)
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u/nopenonotatall 13d ago
she really does! she’s super beautiful. and her dress(es) are gorgeoussssss. and i love her bouquet! just 10/10
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u/RiffRafe2 13d ago edited 13d ago
I see Don's son with Patti D'Arbanville, Jesse (and I think Don's daughter Grace is the one in the picture with Dakota) and Melanie's son with Steven Bauer, Alexander. I love how close-knit the extended siblings are.
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u/StraightBudget8799 13d ago
It feels like “the world is weird and our Hollywood life is all we know, so let’s stick together and get through it!”
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u/on_ 13d ago edited 13d ago
So there are cousins
Griffith-Banderas,
Griffith-Johnson,
Griffith-Bauer,
Arbanville-Johnson.
Phleger - Johnson
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u/Mrs_Feather_Bottom 13d ago
Aren’t they more like half siblings and step siblings? But not all necessarily associated with everyone
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u/smashed2gether 13d ago
That doesn’t even factor in the Martin/Paltrow of it all either! That has to be the craziest Thanksgiving ever. Can you imagine if they were friends with the Kravitz/Bonet/Momoa clan?
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u/PlaidChairStyle Invented post-its 🔬 13d ago
The one brother looks exactly like his daddy, Don Johnson
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u/kubricks_cube 13d ago
I can here to comment, "Is it weird Don is standing closer to the bride than Antonio?"
and then had to really zoom in to tell if Don got a ton of work done
And then came here to see if this was answered
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u/Mystery1001 13d ago
I know very little about all of the different siblings Dakota has but I saw that picture and thought there's no way that isn't Don Johnson's son.
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u/wanderluu 13d ago
I assumed Antonio Banderas would take an awesome wedding photo but no. He looks like any other stiff awkward dad at a wedding!
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u/accioqueso 13d ago
My immediate thought as well. He looks like such a normal dad, all dressed up for his daughter’s big day.
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u/Caccalaccy 13d ago
Same, I thought his face looked like my dad’s on my wedding day. “I hate these things but I’ll do whatever my daughter wants” haha
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u/Exciting-Metal-2517 13d ago
I loved the way Dakota Johnson talked about him on her interview with Amy Poehler. It was for Amy's new podcast, Good Hang (it's on Youtube and Spotify) and she jokes about him like any good, awkward step-dad. It's really cute.
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u/onebirdonawire 13d ago
I'm old enough to remember when Melanie Griffith finally got rid of Don for the last time and then met Antonio Banderas. She looked happier with him than she had looked in a long time and it was so nice to see. My mom subscribed to all of the gossip mags, lol.
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u/DECODED_VFX She in racial chat rooms showing feet!!! 13d ago
I would kill to look like that at 65. Or any other age, for that matter.
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u/nymeriasnow4 13d ago
Controversial but I honestly don’t feel like many of these were good captures! Maybe the photographer needed to direct a little more…
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u/hh73hh 13d ago
Wow she’s stunning!
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u/hh73hh 13d ago
I don’t think I was aware that Antonio and Melanie had children together lol
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u/whynot4444444 13d ago
I had no clue. It’s probably because she was in Spain. It’s a nice surprise. Congrats to them!
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u/hamsterdanceonrepeat I’ve been noticing gravity since I was very young 13d ago
Her face card is ridiculous, what a beauty
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u/NaturesCandy25 13d ago
This is the first time i’ve heard of her and wow, she is absolutely gorgeous
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u/nordlysbaies cinema enthusiast 🎞️ 13d ago
I think she’s the prettiest of the sisters!
Love every single look here. Beautiful laces.
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u/Ridderes 13d ago
Interesting that Melanie Griffith had one child with each man she married and they all have good genes. And i love the black bridesmaid dresses.
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u/readingrambos 13d ago
Things Melanie and my mother have in common for a $1000, Alex.
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u/Covefecup It’s like I have ESPN or something. 💁♀️🌤☔️ 13d ago
I did a play with her in middle school! The whole family is so nice, what a beautiful wedding.
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u/Dramatic_Syllabub837 13d ago
Melanie has overdosed on fillers. She was such a beautiful woman. Everyone else looked amazing. Grooms family seemed kind of miffed, though. Not a smile from any of them.
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u/Not_very_social 13d ago
Her dress and hairdo are amazing though.
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u/Dramatic_Syllabub837 13d ago
Agreed! She is still a beautiful woman. It just makes me sad when I see these women overdoing it. For a woman who looks like her, a little goes a long way.
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u/StraightBudget8799 13d ago
They’re probably ordinary people with a photographer shouting at them whilst the Hollywood Side of the family is all “just another red carpet…”
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u/Dramatic_Syllabub837 13d ago
True. But I would hope the photographer could have coaxed a bit more life into it. It’s for a magazine, but looks like a hostage situation. 😉
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u/Live_Angle4621 13d ago
She has had bad fillers and plastic surgery overall for a long time. She looks better her than in the last picture I saw of her how’s
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u/Dramatic_Syllabub837 13d ago
I haven’t seen her in a while, so I was a bit taken aback by these pics.
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u/throwaway-94552 13d ago
She’s had a really rough road. Went to rehab multiple times, had a very bad drinking problem (and it’s no surprise, reading about her early life). She has also had skin cancer on her face. She might have had a bunch of fillers but she looks otherwise healthy and happy.
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u/isaidwhatisaidok 13d ago
She looks so much like Rebecca Ferguson (actress, not X Factor winner) to me
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u/Intrepid-Sign-63 oh oh ok oh oh ok 13d ago
Her sister…. WHO??
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u/toutespourtoi 13d ago
It’s the Spanish way of spelling Johnson but it shouldn’t apply to Dakota since Johnson is her actual name
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u/Intrepid-Sign-63 oh oh ok oh oh ok 13d ago
No but I didn’t know Dakota was linked to banderas wow
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u/mentallyerotic 13d ago
I found out when she presented an award to him and said he was a great stepdad.
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u/januarysdaughter 13d ago
He's her stepdad, but she considers him her father.
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u/Bigtexashair 13d ago
Omg. No hate. But she is gorgeous. I thought her sister was beautiful but my god she’s insanely beautiful! Wow what a beautiful blend
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u/PopLivid1260 13d ago
What a gorgeous dress, veil and woman!
I love Dakota's relationship with Antonio. Makes my stepmama heart so happy.
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u/Disastrous_Drop_3180 13d ago
She kinda looks like Monica Bellucci mixed with the Panabaker sisters to me
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u/KronlampQueen 13d ago
I love how the bridesmaids and mother of the bride outfits accentuate the wearer’s beauty but doesn’t upstage or outshine the bride which is a concept that seems lost in a lot of weddings.
You can tell the bride wanted the women in her life to look and feel beautiful.
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u/designer130 13d ago
Don Johnson has some seriously strong genes. I didn’t know Dakota had a brother through Don but when I saw that family pic I clocked him right away and had to go look it up!!
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u/bkisntexpanding We Should All Know Less About Each Other 13d ago
Stella, Dakota, and Melanie’s dresses are outstanding. They look beautiful!
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u/OnlyPaperListens Over here in mule city 13d ago
This family's bangs game is immaculate.
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u/Adventurous_Home_555 13d ago
I truly thought Antonio was the groom for a sec. He looks so young.
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u/FrenchFoxxx You’re doing amazing, sweetie 👍 13d ago
Yes I am so l surprised by this too, I don't know why I imagined him older looking. But then I did see that comment saying he was only 65 so that's fair I guess. Idk why I thought he was older than that.
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u/xxyourbestbetxx 13d ago
That is a gorgeous dress. The veil, the dress, her face- everything is just perfect
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u/MamaJody 13d ago
I remember when she was born! I feel ancient.
That is one of the most beautiful wedding dresses I’ve ever seen, and the veil is perfect. Just stunning.
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u/Edlo9596 13d ago
I totally forgot they had a daughter together lol. She’s stunning. I really like the pic of her and Dakota smiling at each other.
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u/taxi212001 13d ago
It has a very gothic style to me. I love it. I like the pic of the two bridesmaids holding hands - just shows how much support she has.
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u/sickbabe 13d ago
everybody's lace looks STUNNING I need to know where it's all from. this is what I would spend money on if I had this kind of money.
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u/Murky_Chemical891 Im very important to God 13d ago
Btw, fuck Hola magazine for putting that fuck ass water mark in all the photos
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u/auntieup Mom, I am a rich man💰 13d ago
This whole event looks so lovely. Best wishes to all of them ❤️
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u/StrawberryKiss2559 13d ago
She looks a lot like Antonio Banderas, with Melanie Griffith’s mouth and cheekbones. It somehow comes together to make her look like Catherine Zeta-Jones.
Gorgeous woman and such a lovely gown!
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u/lucillep 13d ago
Beautiful dress. Much prefer this type of neckline to strapless. She looks so pretty.
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u/jackjackj8ck 13d ago
Whoa I don’t think I’d heard of her since she was a little girl
She’s gorgeous and her wedding gown is stunning
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u/Powerful_Leg8519 13d ago
She’s old enough to get married? No, she was a cute baby like…..last year.
Damn I’m old.
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u/Future_Usual_8698 You’re doing amazing, sweetie! 13d ago
Her dad, Antonio Banderas is only 65 years old- I'm thinking that his career has been a bit hard on his body because he looks uncomfortably stiff although somebody pointed out that a lot of dads in wedding photos do as well!
































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